So after the conversation I had with my ex husband this past Sunday and explaining to him why I wouldn't meet half way on the 16th, he obviously didn't listen to one thing I said. I believe I won't be there on the 16th is pretty straight forward. As I explained to him the Judge ordered I only had to meet half way if you were current in your child support payments and you are not, so I don't have to go half way. Doesn't sound like to me I was insinuating anything other than I won't be there on the 16th. So he began to text me on a phone I am borrowing and that person wasn't with me, he was in class. Here is the texts between my ex husband and my friend:
Ex Husband 7:03pm - Have the boys call me. I am in GA, and I am sending this to you. I will be in TN at 11:30AM as previosly stated.
Friends Phone 7:11pm - Can it be at ten, or will not accept the call.
Friends Phone 7:18pm - Are then coming on to IN or is that it for you?
Ex Husband 7:28pm - what do u mean will not except the call? r u kidding me? the hours are from 6-8, per court orders. y 10?
Ex Husband 7:28pm - WHAT R U TALKING ABOUT
Ex Husband 7:39pm - Are you not meeting with me tomorrow at 11:30AM in TN as previously stated per the court orders and per my visitation time. I will be there.
Ex Husband 7:40pm - If 10 is what it takes to talk with my kids, I will allow it this one time, however it will not continue on that schedule, as for they should be in bed by then.
Ex Husband 7:57pm - I'm waiting for a response. What are your plans? I asked you questions.
Ex Husband 8:19pm - ****(me), you need to communicate with me immediately regarding the children and the pick up and drop off. I will be in TN at 11:30AM tomorrow. Will see you then? I will not go any further than TN, absolutely not.
Friends Phone 8:48pm - It is *****(ex husband) I asking for 10 because that is when I will see *****(my oldest son).
Friends Phone 8:49pm - I have weld now so ttyl.
Ex Husband 9:08pm - thats cool man, weld class is great. I can handle 10. just make sure i talk to him the :)
Friends Phone 9:32pm - No prob.
Ex Husband 10:03pm - It's not 10:02 and still no call.
Ex Husband 10:03pm - It's now 10:03 and no call.
Friends Phone 10:04pm - I am my home rainy and crappy here.
Ex Husband 10:10pm - That is no excuse. Where are my children?
Friends Phone 10:12pm - With there mom, dude. Look can't drive any faster.
Ex Husband 10:13pm - In order for *********(me, using my givin name) and the kids to be at the PD on time in the morning, she needs to leave the house no later than 3:30AM to be there by 11:30AM.
Ex Husband 10:14pm - It's about an 8 1/2 hour drive.
Ex Husband 10:15pm - Well you said that you would have then call me at 10:00, it's now going on 10:15 and it's been 15 minutes of waiting for the call. This has been noted and I will be in TN at 11:30AM. Don't worry about having the kids call me now, they need to get sleep because they have to get up early in the morning.
Ex Husband 10:23pm - to meet me that is
Ex Husband 10:24pm - does ****(me) converse with your ex? this is ****s(me) responsibility not yours
Ex Husband 10:25pm - my kids! not yours, never
Ex Husband 10:25pm - y so involved
Ex Husband 10:26pm - this is not your deal
Ex Husband 10:28pm - 10:28 wheres my kids!
Friends Phone 10:31pm - Then stop texting be home in 5 min. So, shut up and relax
Ex Husband 10:32pm - i will not shut up! involved my children, where r they
Ex Husband 10:33pm - r u my kids still up
Friends Phone 10:33pm - My phone my rules. Don't piss me off.
Ex Husband 10:34pm - will u b there tomorrow?
Ex Husband 10:35pm - no! ****(me) SAID TO CALL! AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED THIS IS THE ONLY WAY TO SPEAK TO MY KIDS PER ****(me)
Friends Phone 10:36pm - Me no. I will be in class. I agree don't piss owner of phone.
And as soon as my friend came home from his class we called him at 10:36pm. He talked to his sons. He asked my oldest what time he would be getting up in the morning which bothered me because he always questions the children. He told them he would be seeing them tomorrow and picking them up to bring them back to his house for the summer visitation. Now I am not happy about this what so ever. Because as stated in the texts he said he wasn't going any further than TN but then tells our kids he's picking them up tomorrow after I told him this past Sunday I would not be there. Now I have to do damage control on my oldest. He is going to be completely heart broken and not understand a single thing. I'm thankful the youngest two have no clue what's going on or who "daddy" is.
I hurt for my children and I hate the choices I have made. They are paying for my sins and I wish I could change it, but I can't. Or can I?
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