The next and current problem I have is summer visitation. As talked about in the previous blogs my oldest son has some issues his pediatrician noticed at his 6 year check up. He said that my son needs to be seen by a neuropsychologist. I all ready had to reschedule the first appointment per the magistrate in Florida from April of 2010 to May of 2010. At the appointment in May his Doctor ordered 4 hours of testing that is costing me $200 because insurance doesn't pay for it.
Here is the problem the soonest I could get him in is on the 18th of June which is two days into my ex husbands visitation for the summer. I keep trying to convince him to let me have the kids until then so our oldest son can be tested. He wants me to put it off until he gets back which is a week before school starts. I don't want to wait until then because if he has problems he needs to have treatments.
I have an email where he tells me I can meet him half way on the 19th and then three hours later he changes it to the 16th. I have an email from him sent a few weeks ago where he says he has no problem with our son being testing, but he's trying to stop it for some reason. He has called the Doctor to have it switched to someone in Florida, he has tried to reschedule it behind my back at a later time. Really I can't wait until a week before school to do this it needs to be done now. I keep explaining to him that his old teacher had concerns all throughout the school year and wanted to know what was going on with him so she could place him with the proper teacher. If I found out now what is going on with him they can do that, but they can't change his teacher a week before school starts.
So the problem now isn't just the testing, well that's the problem for me, the problem for him is me meeting him half way in Tennessee. As it states at least three different places in the divorce papers I am suppose to meet half way if he is caught up on child support, and he is not. I get emails daily saying I will meet him half way as per the divorce papers and if I don't I will be in contempt of court. I've gotten 5 emails in the last week which I have not responded to and I'm afraid to. I get told this is where I'm suppose to meet at what time and not once has he asked me what I can do or what would work for me. How is this all mutual? How do I stop him from bullying me? I am so beat down now...
More to come I promise next blog will be an email that he sends me; something current to read with my comments. Really I think the best way to understand him is to just read what he says, it shows more than I can describe. Thanks for read and putting up with my ranting and raving.
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