It's taken me while to regain my composure to be able to write. Since Wednesday June the 16th my world has been turned upside down. I never met half way in Tennessee because he was not current on his child support. However, after he spoke with our oldest son he told me that his daddy was not coming and he was heading back to Georgia. Then a few seconds later I get two texts saying for me to look up a cheap flight from Atlanta that he would fly out of there and be in Indiana tomorrow. Lies, lies, lies and he involved his son in it which makes me sick.
I decided to head over to my moms house for dinner and around 9:15pm there is a knock on my moms screen door and her boyfriend went to answer it, I followed behind and it was an officer. I have no clue how they found out where my mom lives. Her phone started blowing up because they went to my uncles house looking for me and after getting the police report they were headed to my 89 year old grandmas house. Outrageous! They were saying we were hiding the kids and keeping the kids from my ex husband. I was offended. If I were hiding I'd go to a place where no one could find me. My moms front door and all of her windows were open for anyone to see and hear and yet we were being accused of hiding the children. The Fort Wayne Police told my mother and I if they could prove we were hiding the children we would get arrested.
I tried to beg and plead saying I had an email from my ex husband allowing me to exchange the children on the 19th so our oldest could have his neurological testing done on the 18th. I was shot down. I asked "well what if I don't hand over the kids until after his testing on Friday" and he told me "then I would arrest you right now". So basically my ex husband can go around lying to me about what I can do and then I proceed with that and then throws these papers up in my face along with the constant cop calling. My oldest son cried when we left my moms house, I had never seen him act like that before. I had to beg to let them ride with me to our house because my ex husband wanted to take them now. We needed to go back so we could get their things.
We were followed by the police and I had 30 minutes to get them packed and ready to go. I was frantic, running around, trying to remember everything 3 little boys needed. I forgot a ton of stuff. Despite what everyone may say I was not, I repeat was not wanting my ex husband to not have the kids for the summer. I just wanted my oldest son to have his testing. I had to reschedule for August 18th.
It was very hard for me to say goodbye. My oldest started crying again, I had never seen him act like that. My youngest stayed at the edge of the steps, he didn't want to leave. After they were gone an officer stayed to talk to us and I thought it was because he was being nice, but after reading the report it was because my ex husband requested a police escort to I69 and the officer that stayed with us was to make sure we didn't leave after them. Seriously, what do these people think I'm capable of? I have never been arrested, or have had any kind of ticket. My background is in the medical field where I help people recover from surgeries etc. I am not a criminal! Why am I being treated like one?
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